Exploration of Dzukogi's "Sex is Beautiful


By Muhammad Kabir Yusuf

B.M Dzukogi (aka kindirmo poet) is a writer, literary critic and activist and columnist. The writer of Kano to Ibadan by Road just produced a daringly bold title Sex is Beautiful which generated a lot of comment within the literary circles. LEADERSHIP's MUHAMMAD KABIR YUSUF reviews the book.


Title: Sex is Beautiful

Author: B. M. Dzukogi

Pages: 71

Publisher: Kraft Book Ltd


To start with, Dzukogi has basically two reasons for writing the pamphlet Sex is Beautiful. The two reasons are not sequential; the two reasons can not be numbered 1 and 2. Each of the two reasons is an independent number 1. They independently address two different issues. The first reason is an internal compelling urge towards uplifting the moral standards of our beloved country. In Dzukogi's words, "this pamphlet is... a quest to reverse the ills of our immediate environment". Where did this reason originate from is a significant question in the formation of the bedrock of this review. This question must have its origin traceable to Dzukogi's wide experience in teaching; interacting with young people, about whom he knows more than parents do. He must have had first hand information about how deep has the social ills eaten into the flesh of the body of our code of values.


Coming back to the second reason which is an argumentative postulation, Dzukogi wrote his pamphlet presumably, for the simple fact that he has three daughters. Dzukogi wouldn't have written the pamphlet if he had three sons? No! I can't believe this. Dzulogi would still write it. This reason is just argumentative postulation for those who still wonder why Dzukogi had to write the pamphlet even after listening to him as he presents the first reason. This is inferably clear in Dzukogi's presentation in the introduction of the pamphlet. He wrote and I quoted "For those who still wonder, why I had to write this, perhaps I should say, I have tree daughters"

What do you think I am trying to do here? You think I am trying to explain the reasons why Dzukogi has to write his pamphlet? Not at all. Maybe I am trying to read the minds of those asking Dzulogi for his reasons for writing the pamphlet. Yeah! After perusing through Sex is Beautiful, I now want to read the mind of other people who read the pamphlet and still have reason to ask why the pamphlet has to see light.


You know what? I think of two things right now. Whether Dzukogi's friends missed the correct question or else, they were hasty in asking the question. The right question should be why the pamphlet should carry the title Sex is Beautiful. Or maybe to make it clearer, the question should be how accurately the title captures the essence of the pamphlet? Is Dzukogi really trying to explain how Sex is Beautiful? Actually not. He is in fact trying to explain how sex is bitter not beautiful. Yes, the outcome of casual sex is bitter, especially to the young girls. Young girls are often the victims followed by the children born on the other side of the blanket.


One question always leads to another. It is pertinent here to ask the question why Dzukogi must title his pamphlet Sex is Beautiful if that is not what he is talking about. In his words, Dzukogi seeks to justify this by saying "I wanted something that would compel the young to pick it up and read". The title is therefore, more of a hook statement than a title. Dzukogi is making his pamphlet a must read by all the youth that come across the title. That is wise of him. But is it literarily and morally justifiable? How confident is Dzukogi about the content of his pamphlet; I mean, why must he "unnecessarily" seek to hyper carefully select a title that will call attention to the content. I mean, why must he create reading hunger in the minds of his readers? Is it part of the Nigerian literati self promotion syndrome? All these are questions I think should be answered by another reviewer. At least, I have done part of the job by raising the questions.


Dzukogi is... No! Sex is Beautiful, is... No! I think both are daringly bold. They are bold independent of one anther. Yes, boldness has been a trademark to Dzukogi, long before he wrote Sex is Beautiful. But the thing is that, the topic treated in Sex is Beautiful can only be treated with boldness. It doesn't matter whether Dzukogi wrote it or some body else did. To explain to young people the dire consequences of casual sex one needs to be bold or else one should forget it. No second option. So, where Dzukogi's personality comes in is not in the boldness with which he treated the topic, but the very first step of the book; the question is that of Dzukogi's ability to convince himself to write about the topic. Dzukogi's bravery lies in his conviction to practice purposeful literature at the time when his friend E.E. Sule preaches the gospel of Art-for-art sake.


Having said all these, there remains another crucial question. Is Sex is Beautiful really a literary piece or a text book in Sex Education? Assuming it to be a literary piece we will be faced with the question of genre. Sex is Beautiful will not pass for a prose, poetry, (with the exception of the poems in it) or play. I think this is a problem. The conventional, (or is it just traditional) classification of literary work is too narrow to accommodate a lot of literary works nowadays. Sex is Beautiful is an example. But then, the pamphlet can pass for a good text book in Sex Education. Agreed that the author taught Physical Health Educational (PHE) for 2 decades, is that enough justification for writing Sex Education text book for a literary work? I think yes. That is exactly what makes our works ours; for they have in them the experiences we went through in the journey of life, the uniqueness of our personalities and the very things that made us different and independent entities. That is exactly what guarantees our ability to transmit our world to the up coming generations through our literature. That is what makes literary works immortal.


I will not just sit at the comfort of my office and predict that Dzukogi's pamphlet is going to achieve its aim or even sit here and recommend that it is a must read book as used to be done at the end of every review. I consider that as a sycophantic and aristocratic scholarship which I don't want to identify with. For that, I am not going to judge the pamphlet by future success. That one is left to be seen. In fact, I will not even judge the book by the fact that it has been written. Many written books in today's literary production are not worth there salt. I am comfortable to judge Dzukogi's pamphlet by the author's inner working while contemplating the decision to write the book. I am comfortable to judge the pamphlet by those times Dzukogi spent alone in solitude wondering what would be the future of these inexperienced young girls launched into this sexually reckless world. I want to imagine Dzukogi's concern over the morality of his society and judge his pamphlet by that. This is because the pamphlet is produced by that concern. I want to believe that when Dzukogi talked about his daughters in the introduction of Sex is Beautiful, he is making a symbolic statement. He imagined himself to be the society and his daughters as all the vulnerable young girls the society produced. You want me to go further explaining my belief? Each of the 3 daughters symbolises one major Nigerian tribe; Hausa, Igbo and Yoruba, while the others that will come (as he stipulated) are the symbolism of other girls from the other Nigerian tribes. What else do we need to begin to shout "job well done keep it up Dzukogi"?

Comments

Anonymous said…
This book has a great lesson to teach the society, it is indeed a wake up call for not just the youngsters even the adult. It is quite insipirational and I must say that I have learnt so much reading the book.
mohammed Umar Pharook (kasu/09/mcm/1063) said…
This review brought back memories of a story I once heard of a class of mass communication students that were ask to write a feature story on any topic of their choice and from the most unlikely source came a feature with the title "100 ways to make love to a woman". What was even more shocking was that, the writer was one regarded by her mate as the religiously inclined type.
Now what does these two title show, simple, that matters of sexual nature are societally regarded as a no-go area in public domain, even though the reality of our time points that we are now more than any other time in history living in a sexually reckless society.
Parents have failed to understand in country's like ours that they also owe the wards the responsibility of giving them sexual counselling and education otherwise risk the possibility of them getting practical lessons by stranger (no parent wishes for that).
Dgukogi's decision decision to go with the title "sex is beautiful" most have been born out of the desire to reach out to a non-reading generation whose sexual urge is running a hay-wire, title's like that would definately catch the eyes of any passer-by (it actually caught mine and I can't wait to get inside its content). Someone has to take the initiative to educate the youth on the dangers of sexual promiscuity and if he did, he should be celebrated and not giving attitude.
Unknown said…
OLUYORI RONKE PRECIOUS
KASU/09/MCM/1093
He should have used a more presentable title for his book.
Unknown said…
Yusuf Sani
KASU/09/MCM/1080
I blieved the title of the book "sex is beautiful" will attract some people to read it, yet it will make others to hate it. Imagine how parents will react if found their children reading a book with the title "sex is beautiful".
EVELYN MORENIKE ADIGUN (kasu/09/mcm/1082) said…
I will say that most parents have failed to do justice in teaching their children about sex education. And someone is taking it upon himself to give the youths, especially the vulnerable girls who are always at the recieving end. It is only in Africa societies that you find parents/teachers been secretive on the truth behind casual sex, this is the main reason why modern youths fall victim of this mind slavery.
Anonymous said…
SARAH AYUBA KASU/09/MCM/1027. i believe he tries to use the title to catch the minds of the people in other to show the youth the danger of sex.we should rather hail him and not castigate him.if our parents hav fail in discusing such issues wit their daugther then this is the right medium to educate our young girls who are at the receiving.
Anonymous said…
Deborah Adesuyi kasu/09/mcm/1085. I don't see any wrong in dis title, the writer has only picked this kind of title to get d attention of its audience. And I must say, the title is really catchy. And I recommend it for up-cumin girls
Anonymous said…
yakubu danjuma kasu/09/mcm/1018 i believe he is trying to pass a moral to the youth that sex is only beautiful between husband and wife
Paul Yunana Adams kasu/09/mcm/1045 said…
It is expected that the title of a book reflects the content of that book. "sex is beautiful" suggest a book that promotes sexual acts which a decent and moral society frawns at. The writer shoul have used a topic that depicts the consequences of casual sex among the youths.
Anonymous said…
Evelyn Bartholomew kasu/09/mcm/1031 its good to come out open and educate people instead of shyin our and allow others fall in ignorance.
hamza umar hassan kasu/09/mcm/1065 said…
Wow I see noting wrong with the name of the book do we want him to name the book sex is ugly am in full support of the name I wish I could one and read it.
Anonymous said…
sulaiman zubaida B(kasu/09/mcm/1038). I think its good to educate people about sex life, its relevance and implications, but i also think the title of the book is too open, and not proper.
Anonymous said…
Godiya Daniel
kasu/09/mcm/1025
it may sound too open but it does not call for criticism.he is only trying to be straightforward.
Anonymous said…
peter ishaku kasu/09/mcm/1020.. wonderful piece, a good initiative to educate us on the dangers of sexual promiscuity.
Anonymous said…
Musa Khadijah Karimullah(Kasu/09/mcm/1062). The book is a great one which teaches wonderful things this generation needs to know about sex.
Anonymous said…
Hassana sani zailani kasu 09 mcm 1068,, the tittle is toooooo open, though he try
Anonymous said…
simnom usman kasu/09/mcm/1047 the writer knows what he is doing, i think the writer uses that kind of title in other in other to catch the attention of the youth especially adult
Anonymous said…
ezekiel jonas auta kasu/09/mcm/1013 most people shy away from such issues that is why there are high cases of moral decadence in our society today
Anonymous said…
ezekiel jonas auta kasu/09/mcm/1013 most people shy away from such issues that is why there are high cases of moral decadence in our society today
Anonymous said…
tirnoh goje kasu/08/mcm/1035 if we say the book is too open then the writer taught of that twice before given it that kind of title
Anonymous said…
Opeyemi Babalola
Kasu /09 /mcm /1022
He was right for using that title, which will attract the attention of youths.
kasu/09/mcm/1010 said…
It's too RAW, yes, he wants us to conprehend every detail on this issue of great significance. Very okay.
Anonymous said…
zainab yau kanya kasu/09/mcm/1040 The Author of the book has really educated and enlighten youths on the issues concerning them.
Anonymous said…
Kasu/09/mcm/1009. People always shy away when the word SEX is mentioned due to our religious and moral background but I don't think its a reason enough for parents to allow their children get that knowledge some where coz charity they say begins at home.I think the book tittle is ok coz its catchy.
Anonymous said…
Kasu/09/mcm/1072 hadiza Aliyu hayatu
I believe the book tittle is catchy and may b dangarous to some at thesame time because it can easily be misinterpreted. Its good to hav knowledgeable people talk about sex as a lot of parents fail to do their primary assignment on the area to their children.
Anonymous said…
KASU/09/MCM/1002
You can never judge a book by its cover, I feel its another form of sex education which we've lost in most homes.
sadiya ibrahim muhammed kasu/09/mcm/1067 said…
We should not put more attention on the title but the content in it,there is these saying that say don't jugde a book by it cover the name is ok.
Anonymous said…
mercy michael,kasu/09/mcm/1014,every writer of a book uses a catchy title to atract a large readership at thesame time the implications of such phrase should not be overlook.such piece are good for us the youth not to indulge in sexual activities outside marriage
Aisha Siraj said…
KAsU/09/MCM
morally and religiously i don't think this book will be patronized or should be published in the first place how ever to the bizarre generation we have where the idea of sex is bombarding our daily lives especially in movies and even cartoons, peer group pressure and the rest it is then very important to educate our youth on the topic
Anonymous said…
Kasu/09/mcm/1055 sex can only be beatiful only if the married practise it
Anonymous said…
kasu/09/mcm/1079 sex is being miss used nowadays but it is beautiful if the only the mamas and the papas get involve in doing it
IBRAHIM SALISU GIMBA. KASU/09/MCM/1058 said…
It is quite insipirational and I must say that I have learnt so much reading this article.
I have to lound the effort of Dgukogi's for choosing such tittle “sex” with regard to it partinency in our society.
Ibrahim kabir said…
KASU/09/MCM/1008 Wel! by reading the book you can believ that really the book tittle does'nt correspond the content of the book, as the book's reviewer observed,he observed that the book writer is trying to indicates the negative aspect of freemarital sex, but instead for him to specify it in the book's tittle, he just reversed a pick attracted tittle.
Anonymous said…
Jamila Shehu Rahama
The book is good but i most confess the tittle should be something more decent than "sex is beautiful"
Anonymous said…
KASU/09/MCM/1054
ABDUSSALAM S. RAMALAN

Catchy, attractive and intresting in content. One may realy incline to the book uncontiously. The title is just subliminal in nature.
Anonymous said…
Shamsuddeen Umar kasu/09/mcm/1050

i guess the tittle was used purposely to capture readers attention, but some people will hate to read the book
Anonymous said…
THEOPHILUS MADAMI KASU/09/MCM/1077

it may sound negative at the same time sound positive to some
Anonymous said…
Aisha A Jamil kasu/08/mcm/1044

it will teach a good lesson to the public
Unknown said…
MAIMUNAT ALIYU ISA KASU/09/MCM/1073
The book is educative to anyone who read and digests it. However, Dzukogi would have given the book a better and matured title instead of what he captioned it. The title of the book could easily abuse the minds of young ones to indulge into sex before marriage. I therefore suggest that the title of the book could be changed to 'Sex is Beautiful in Marriage or Importance of Sex for the Couples'.

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